Nā Kumumanaʻo no nā hui kamaʻilio ITAA - Internet and Technology Addicts Anonymous

Ma ke ʻano he poʻe ʻona pūnaewele, pono mākou e akahele i ke ʻano o kā mākou hoʻohana ʻana i ka ʻenehana e kākoʻo i kā mākou hoʻōla ʻana a me kā mākou mau hālāwai. No ka laʻana, ʻo Zoom a me kā mākou pūnaewele he mau mea hana koʻikoʻi e kōkua i kā mākou hui e hiki aku i nā poʻe ʻona ʻaʻohe komo i nā hālāwai pilikino. I kēia manawa, ʻaʻohe wahi o nā ʻenehana ʻē aʻe—nā kahua kahe, nā hānai pāpili kaiapili, nā polokalamu pili, nā pāʻani wikiō—i loko o kā mākou hui. Hiki i nā hui kamaʻilio ke hāʻule ma waena: hiki iā lākou ke lilo i mea pono no ka noho hoʻonohonoho ʻana ma waho o nā hālāwai, akā hiki iā lākou ke hānai i nā ʻano ʻona maikaʻi ʻole. ʻO ke kumu o kēia palapala, ʻo ia ke kuhikuhi i nā loina e kōkua i nā hui kamaʻilio ITAA e hōʻoia e lawelawe ana lākou i kā mākou kumu nui: e lawe i ka leka i ka mea hoʻohana pūnaewele a me ka ʻenehana e ʻeha mau nei.

Ma keʻano laulā, ke paipai nei mākou i nā hui kamaʻilio ITAA e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i kēia mau loina:

I alakaʻi ʻia e nā Kuʻuna ʻUmikūmālua: Hana maikaʻi pinepine nā hui kamaʻilio ke pili lākou me kahi hālāwai ITAA pākahi e mālama ana i ke kamaʻilio no ka pono o kona mau lālā a hiki ke kūkākūkā i nā kumuhana e pili ana i ka hui kamaʻilio ma ko lākou mau lunamanaʻo hui. Inā ʻaʻole pili kā mākou hui kamaʻilio me kahi hālāwai ITAA kikoʻī, hiki iā mākou ke mālama i nā lunamanaʻo hui maʻamau (ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma ke kūkākūkā ola ma ke kino a i ʻole ma Zoom), koho i nā kauwā hilinaʻi, a hoʻomaʻamaʻa. nā Kuʻuna ʻUmikūmālua, e like me nā hālāwai ʻē aʻe. A i ʻole, ua paipai ʻia ka hui kamaʻilio e noho ʻaʻole maʻamau, ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻaʻole ia e hoʻohana i ka inoa a i ʻole ka logo ITAA, a ʻaʻole pono nā lālā e hoʻolaha iā ia i nā mea hou a me nā hoa ʻē aʻe ma ITAA.
He kumu maopopo: Hiki i nā hui kamaʻilio ITAA ke pōmaikaʻi mai kahi kumu maopopo e kūlike me ke kumu nui o kā mākou hui: e lawe i ka leka i ka mea hoʻohana pūnaewele a me ka ʻenehana e hoʻomanawanui mau nei. ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona o nā kumu e komo pū me ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i nā kauā hilinaʻi no kahi hālāwai a i ʻole ke kelepona ʻana i nā hoʻolaha. ʻAʻole kūpono loa nā hui kamaʻilio ITAA kūhelu ma ke ʻano he mau kahua no ka kaʻana like ʻole, kamaʻilio like ʻole, a i ʻole ke kūkākūkā kūhelu ʻole, hiki ke lilo i mau kaʻa no ka hoʻouna ʻana i nā leka hoʻomaopopo, ka nānā ʻana i nā leka hoʻomaopopo, ka pilina parasocial, a me nā hakakā interpersonal. ʻOiai ua paipai ʻia kēlā me kēia hui e hoʻoholo nona iho i ke kumu kikoʻī o kāna kamaʻilio ʻana, ma ke ʻano he poʻe ʻona pūnaewele a me ka ʻenehana, pono mākou e akahele i ka wā e hoʻohana ai i kahi kahua pāpili kaiapili e lawe i ka leka i nā mea hou. Hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomanaʻo ua lilo nā mea ʻona i nā kaiāulu hoʻōla ʻo Twelve Step i ka maʻemaʻe me ka ʻole o nā hui kamaʻilio no kahi kokoke i 100 mau makahiki. Me ka nui o nā hālāwai maka-a-maka, nā haneli o nā hālāwai pūnaewele, a me nā tausani o nā lālā i loaʻa no nā kelepona hoʻolaha, he nui nā ʻano hana i hoʻāʻo ʻia e ka manawa ma waho aʻe o ke kamaʻilio ʻana no nā mea ʻona pūnaewele a me ka ʻenehana e ʻimi nei i kahi ala e kaʻana like ai.
Nā palena i wehewehe pono ʻia a me nā kuleana hoʻomalu: Loaʻa i kā mākou mau hui kamaʻilio ka pōmaikaʻi mai nā palena i kākau ʻia e pili ana i ke kumu o ka hui a me nā alakaʻi kikoʻī no ka hoʻouna ʻana, a ke kamaʻilio nei mākou i kēia mau alakaʻi i nā poʻe hou. Hiki ke loaʻa kahi laʻana o ia mau palena ma lalo o kēia ʻaoʻao. Koho mākou i nā kauwā hilinaʻi me nā palena manawa e hoʻomaʻamaʻa ana i ka hoʻololi ʻana o ka lawelawe a hiki ke hana e mālama i nā palena. Hiki iā mākou ke ʻike he mea pono ke hoʻohana i kahi kulekele 3-strike no nā hewa maʻamau (ke kau ʻana ma waho o nā palena o ka hui, nā hōʻike o ka flirtation makemake ʻole ʻia, a pēlā aku), ma hope o ia mea hiki ke wehe ʻia ka lālā no ka manawa o 3-6 mau mahina ma mua o ka kono ʻia ʻana e hui hou inā makemake lākou e hoʻohanohano i nā palena o ka hui. No nā hewa nui (nā hōʻino kolohe, nā leka moekolohe a i ʻole nā kiʻi, a pēlā aku), hiki ke wehe koke ʻia ka lālā no kekahi manawa pōkole a hiki i ka wā e kūkākūkā ai kahi lunamanaʻo hui i ka lōʻihi o ka wehe ʻana, ma waena o 6 mau mahina a me ka palena ʻole. ʻO ka hoʻoholo e wehe i kahi lālā mai kahi hui, ʻoiai no kahi manawa palena, pono e lawe koʻikoʻi loa, a pono e kūkākūkā mau ʻia kekahi wehe ʻana i loko o kahi lunamanaʻo hui (ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua). Hiki ke loaʻa nā manaʻo hou aʻe no ke ʻano o ka lawelawe ʻana i nā ʻano paʻakikī i kā mākou Alakaʻi i ka Palekana ma ITAA.
ʻAʻole pono nā hui kamaʻilio ke kikowaena mua o ka hoʻokaʻaʻike ʻana: Ua hoʻāʻo kekahi mau hālāwai e paʻi i kahi loulou i kā lākou hui kamaʻilio ma ka pūnaewele e maʻalahi ai i nā poʻe hou ke nīnau e pili ana i ka hālāwai. Ua ʻike pinepine mākou ʻaʻole paha i loaʻa i nā poʻe hou i hele ʻole i kahi hālāwai a i ʻole kamaʻilio me kekahi lālā ʻē aʻe ka ʻike a i ʻole ke akahele e mālama i nā palena palekana i loko o ka hui a i ʻole i nā lālā ʻē aʻe. Eia kekahi, ʻo ka hoʻouna ʻana i ka loulou i kā mākou hui kamaʻilio ma ke akea e hoʻolilo iā mākou i mea maʻalahi i nā spammers a me nā trolls. Paipai ʻia nā hālāwai e hāʻawi i nā leka uila hoʻokaʻaʻike a me nā helu kelepona no nā poʻe hou e makemake ana e hele, ʻaʻole i nā loulou hui kamaʻilio. Inā e noi ana kahi lālā i ʻike ʻole ʻia e hui pū me kahi hui kamaʻilio, he mea kūpono ke nīnau mua i kekahi mau nīnau e pili ana i ke ʻano o ko lākou lohe ʻana e pili ana i ka hui kamaʻilio i mea e kānana ai i nā mea hana ʻino.

ʻO ke kumu, ke paipai nei kēia mau loina i nā hui kamaʻilio e hoʻonohonoho pono ʻia, kaupalena ʻia ka laulā, a alakaʻi ʻia e kā mākou mau Kuʻuna He ʻUmikūmālua. He mau ʻōlelo paipai wale nō kēia, a ke hilinaʻi nei mākou i nā lālā a me nā hui e ʻike i ko lākou ala ponoʻī i mua ma o ke kaʻina hana noʻonoʻo o ka hui. Ke manaʻolana nei mākou ma ke ʻano he hui, hiki i kēia mau loina ke alakaʻi iā mākou i kahi pilina me nā hui kamaʻilio e kōkua i nā mea ʻona hou aʻe a puni ka honua e ʻimi i kahi kaiāulu paʻa, palekana, a palekana hoʻi e hoʻōla ai.

Laʻana o ka wehewehe ʻana o ka hui kamaʻilio a me nā palena:

ʻO ke kumu o kēia kamaʻilio ʻana, ʻo ia ke kōkua i nā kelepona hoʻolaha ma waena o nā lālā o ka hui {Meeting name} ITAA. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kau ma ke kamaʻilio ʻana inā makemake ʻoe i kahi kelepona hoʻolaha, a e pane mai kekahi lālā ʻē aʻe i kāu leka inā loaʻa lākou a laila e kelepona iā ʻoe. E ʻoluʻolu e hoʻomanaʻo i nā palena aʻe:

E kaʻana like i kēia hui me nā lālā ʻē aʻe o ITAA.
ʻO ke kumu o kēia hui, ʻo ia wale nō ke noi ʻana i nā kelepona hoʻolaha mai nā lālā ʻē aʻe. E noho ma ke kumuhana a pale i ka kaʻana like ʻana i nā leka pili ʻole. Inā pono ʻoe e kaʻana like, e kelepona i kahi lālā a i ʻole e hele i kahi hālāwai.
E mālama i ka inoa ʻole o nā lālā ʻē aʻe. Mai kaʻana like i ka inoa, ka helu kelepona, a i ʻole ka ʻike o kekahi lālā me ka ʻole o kā lākou ʻae.
Mai hoʻouna i nā loulou, wikiō, memes, gifs, a i ʻole nā mea ʻē aʻe o waho.
E pale i ka hoʻolaha ʻana i nā lawelawe ʻoihana āu a i ʻole nā mea ʻē aʻe e hāʻawi nei.
E pale i ka spamming, ka hoʻolei ʻana, a i ʻole ka huhū. E noʻonoʻo ma mua o kou kau ʻana, a mai pane wikiwiki. E hoʻomanaʻo he poʻe hoʻohana pūnaewele mākou i ka hoʻōla ʻana a he hopena kāu mau leka i ke olakino noʻonoʻo o kēlā me kēia mea komo ʻē aʻe.
Mai hoʻohana i ka hui e hōʻino i kekahi a hōʻike paha i nā hoʻopiʻi. E kamaʻilio malū aku i ke kanaka kūpono me ke ʻano mahalo, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma hope o ke kākau mua ʻana i kahi papa inoa a kūkākūkā me kāu mea kākoʻo.
ʻAʻole kēia kahi e hālāwai ai me nā hoa pili. E pale i nā ʻano hoʻowalewale o kēlā me kēia ʻano, me nā hoʻomaikaʻi me ka noi ʻole ʻia, nā ʻakaʻaka ʻino, a i ʻole ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e launa pū me kahi lālā i hōʻike ʻaʻole lākou i loaʻa.

Hoʻomaʻamaʻa mākou i kahi kulekele 3-strike, ʻo ia hoʻi inā ʻoe e uhaki i kēia mau palena i 3 mau manawa, hiki i kahi luna hoʻomalu ke wehe iā ʻoe no ka manawa o 3-6 mau mahina. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻo kēia mau ʻano hana ke kumu no ka wehe koke ʻana a hiki ke mau loa:

Hana ʻino a hoʻouka kaua paha, e like me ke kāhea ʻana i ka inoa, ka hōʻino ʻana, ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻana, ka hoʻohenehene ʻana, a i ʻole nā hoʻoweliweli.
ʻO ke ʻano moekolohe, me ka hana ʻana i nā ʻōlelo moekolohe a i ʻole nā noi ʻana i nā lālā ʻē aʻe a i ʻole ka hoʻouna ʻana i nā ʻike moekolohe.
Ka hoʻokae ʻana o kēlā me kēia ʻano, e like me ka lāhui, ke kāne, ka ʻike kāne, ka manaʻoʻiʻo, ka hoʻomana, ka moekolohe, ke ʻano o ke kino, ke kīnā, a i ʻole ka neurodiversity.
Ka hoʻoluhi hewa ʻana, ka hahai ʻana, a i ʻole kekahi ʻano hana kalaima ʻē aʻe.

Hahai kēia kamaʻilio ʻana i nā Kuʻuna ʻUmikūmālua a kau ʻia i ka manaʻo o ka hui o kā mākou hālāwai, kahi e mālama ʻia ma ka hālāwai mua o kēlā me kēia mahina i ka hola 1pm manawa kūloko.

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